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First time I used the women’s washroom alone

I recently talked to someone about bathrooms so I thought I would share another one of my stories with them. Which got me thinking about maybe I should post it.

I was in a very rough spot, so I went out to see The Last Jedi. After the movie I needed to go pee and I was not going to make it home. So I had a choice was this going to be the first time I used the women's washroom alone, or the next time I would use the men's? I was two steps away from either washroom, and I stood there for what felt like hours. I had never gone into the women's alone for several months but I really needed to pee, but anxiety was hitting me hard. I was not going to be able to hold it for much longer so I took a left into the women's washroom. No one was in there so I felt fine, but than another movie must have ended as other women came in. I could sit there until everyone left, but I heard a child screaming and thought that person maybe there for a while. I went out, washed my hands and left no problems. Sure I have had second thoughts about using the women's occasionally, but one time I was feeling feelings so I went out of my way to go to Walmart to use the women's washroom and help calm those feelings.