Advance knowledge
So in response to the article in the paper, I was told by someone who has not tried to contact me for about 8 months that I should have given them advance notice. I was also told that my brother was shocked and disappointed, as I know is view points on the topic.
I have not talked to this person for that long as they made it clear they did not want to talk, if anything changed they could have reached out. Do I care what my brother thinks of me now? Not really, his happiness or my life? I think I will choose to live!